Help! Whats Your opinion?

I've got a small dilemma. My flowergirls mother went and got a dress for her daughter without asking me or showing me first..

Ok, they sent me pics tonight, and I don't mind it. I'm a little worried the color may be off but thats just a photo...

My dress is ivory

this is what my dress looks like

http://www.formalsource.com/AURORA%20DPA...

This is the flower girl dress

http://www.flickr.com/photos/chesneydevi...

and

http://www.flickr.com/photos/chesneydevi...

I sent them to mom because she wanted to see it and I liked it...

she threw a fit, she said it looks cheap and that up next to my girls dress and my dress it will look like bad and she'll stick out like a sore thumb.

This is my bridesmaids dress (only in black)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/chesneydevi...

what do you think? Is it ok?

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You need to take a photo of her in it, so many times a dress looks like nothing on a hanger and nice on...that's my siggestion. Then make a calculated decision, just to prove you gave it a fair chance.

Man...I don't get people making deicisions for you! WTH! BTW--your dress it gorgeous!!! :)) You will be stunning my friend.

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